Monday, March 16, 2009

Cooperation vs Competetion

(Inspired from book- 'You'll see it, when you believe it' - by Wayne Dyer. Page 26)

We have this desire to be better than others. And this desire stems from the fact that we care what others think of us. Lets see why we do that.

We are mix of our natural self and unnatural self. Natural self is our inherent properties like Gyaan, Sukha etc. And Unnatual self is our anger, our knowledge acquired in life, our looks, our possessions etc.

A Gyaani identifies himself with his natural self and an agyaani identifies himself with his unnatural self. A Gyani wants to achieve spiritual qualities and therefore want to attain Moksha. On the other hand an agyaani wants to attain the best 'unnatural qualities to soul' which are considered great worldly. If he can not achieve best then he wants to best in his local community. And if he can not be best in his local community, then he wants to atleast maintain an average standard locally. And this gives him a sense of relativism- and ignite competetion in him. Also he like to laugh at the bad qualities of others because that gives him a good feeling.

On the other hand for a Gyaani- he wants to attain spiritual qualities, and since the goal is Moksha- being good locally does not give him satisfaction. 'Relativistim' does not exist in his dictionary, since he has absolute goals to achieve moksha. When he look at others- he look at their 'goods' to follow, and look at 'bads' as compassion.

To summarize:
  • Gyaani believes in co-operation while agyaani believe in competetion.
  • Gyaani believes in compassion while agyanni believes in thinking about bad qualities of others and hate them.
  • Gyaani corrects others if they go on the wrong track, while agyaani makes fun of them.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

good insight

Shrish Jain said...

thanks .. though i still do not have satisfactory clarity on.. why we want to be better than others... i know it is because of Maan kashaya.. but how does our psychology keeps pumping it up... and we are not able to win it all the times.. still looking for better answers than the one i have posted on blog.

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