Planning out in advance

This is a worldly blog.

The things we want to do fall in two buckets: One is when we are responsible and doer of the thing. And the other is when we have lot of people involved in getting the things done.

In both the cases, the planning is needed. However it becomes more important in the later case. Actually not just the planning, but planning and communicating to others. It solves two problems essentially:
1. Others are mentally ready to do the things according to the planning.
2. In case they do not agree to the plan, they would only support in getting the things done if they have made themselves agree to the plan- no matter they like it or not. In case the things has not been planned and communicated, the emotions of other people will show up during getting the things done- and it will create problems.

Learnings from Dhanendra from his training

1. Lets say someone is writing book, and makes a great a effort and then puts it in the river. Does it make sense for him to write the book?

No. Similarly, we are doing things in life- managing family job, which ends after the life- that also does not make sense.

2. If someone is acting unfair to me. Should I have bad feeling for him.

No. because he is unfair because of his upbrining. And hence the real cause if his parents. And why his parents taught him wrong things - because they were taught badly by their experiences and their own teaching. So now the real cause is something else. It seems there is a big chain of cause and effect relations- so we can not just blame the person who is acting unfair to me.